Date #4—Sebastian, Spastic “Soul Mate”

October 2, 2009

There are those times where you ask yourself where to start a story.  This may be one of those times.  I met Sebastian, officially, through Lavalife.  Apparently, however, we had met before.  He used to be married to (and is now in a dubious state of divorce with) some girl I went to high school [...]

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Date #3— Andre, Mr. I’m Afraid of Your Brain

October 2, 2009

This is the date that wasn’t really a date.  I was stood up, and after a lot of anticipation.  I was really excited about meeting this one, whom I actually met over Lavalife.  He was attractive, and very intellectual.  We spent many an email back and forth discussing linguistics, ancestry, and divine concepts of physical [...]

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Date #2— Mike, Who Breaks into Show Tunes

October 2, 2009

I have always wanted to date a musician.  I mean, who is cooler in this world than a musician?  He would be soulful and somewhat sensitive, creative, melodic, cynical and borderline narcissistic.  And lets be honest, musicians are dead sexy, even the ugly ones.  I met Mike online through SSN, and he was a musician.  [...]

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Date #1— Jeremy, The Porn Guy

October 2, 2009

Jeremy was the first guy that I ever really went out with after meeting online.  I didn’t really know online dating protocols or procedures, but after numerous emails back and forth and a few phone calls we decided to meet for dinner.  Now, the funny thing is, I never do dinner on dates.  Too much [...]

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Welcome

October 2, 2009

I never really considered myself to be relationship roadkill.   I’m a  self-confident, urban girl with a pretty good head on my shoulders, yet when I jumped into the dating wading pool, I only seemed to contract ringworm.  Maybe it’s just bad luck, but I think there are more powerful forces at play.  You see, I [...]

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